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Fix My Mind

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Here at Fix My Mind, we provide rapidly effective, premium & personalised Clinical Hypnotherapy & NLP to people in London and Hampshire.  The team has over 25 years experience helping clients be more of who they want to be.

We thought you might want to know what a few clients have said about their experience of working with us, that will give you the confidence that we are skilled and safe practitioners.

These are 100% genuine testimonials.*

If having read this, you’d like to know more about how we can help you, we offer all clients a free 20-minute complimentary consultation. Call on freephone 0800 122 3073, or fill in the quick contact form. If you do, you get a free 2hr download called the ‘Accelerated Relaxation Programme’, valued at £19.99.

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Dame Kelly Holmes

I give my experience of hypnotherapy with James 10/10 *
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I am now simply "uninterested in smoking". It's an amazing feeling. *

James came highly recommended. I approached him about using hypnotherapy for quitting smoking. I tried to quit several times in the past, on my own, but eventually relapsed every time. The service I received was top quality, I had to fill in a questionnaire, they answered any questions I had prior to my session, paid a deposit to book a date and everything was dealt swiftly, with courtesy and professionalism.

The session itself was two hours long, James was really friendly, clear, helpful.

Leaving the session I felt really well, the hours and days that followed felt like someone had lifted a huge weight off my chest. Smoking has gone out of my life for good. – It was and still is, a baffling experience. I’ve been smoke free for over a month now, I do not feel any cravings whatsoever, not even the temptation to have “just one cigarette”.

Most of my friends who smoke, can hardly recognise me now. I am now simply “uninterested in smoking”. It’s an amazing feeling. Besides the immediate and long term health benefits, others areas of my life have improved as a direct consequence of being smoke free. I would strongly recommend James to anyone who is serious about switching to a healthier lifestyle. *

From Marco Ruffati on July 31, 2018

We now have our happy, beautiful and confident daughter back. The fear has gone. *

I can only describe James as a miracle worker!!!!

My daughter had an incredibly extreme phobia of rats and mice, so much that the sound of the words could cause her to hyper ventilate and bring her tears.

School was very difficult. The year 9 curriculum in particular included the first world war, the emphasis on “rats the size of dogs in the trenches” and reading “Of Mice and Men ” in English made her a nervous wreck every morning before she left the house. Recent building works at her school meant the sightings of rodents where becoming commonplace, which only exacerbated her fear of going to school.

The final straw was seeing the absolute terror in my daughter, after our cat brought her a “present” of a mouse one evening. It broke my heart to see her so scared.

Then we found Fix My Mind.

My daughter was a little apprehensive at first, until she spoke to James and he put her at ease.

The day before the appointment my daughter was very nervous, trying to convince herself that the phobia wasn’t so bad after all. She agreed to go to anyway.

I don’t know how he does it, but we now have our happy, beautiful and confident daughter back. The fear has gone. She laughs when she hears what were once the dreaded words of rats and mice. Also, it’s agreed the cat’s allowed to stay !!!

We can’t thank James enough. *

From Lynda Priggot on July 30, 2018

James took about 10 minutes to remove my negative association with the event completely. *

I can only describe my session with James as “magic.” Before we met, I was seeing a traditional therapist every week for a year to discuss a childhood memory that had been affecting me.

James took about 10 minutes to remove my negative association with the event completely.

I felt a difference at the time, but didn’t think much more of it until a few days later when I went back to see my therapist for one of our regular sessions. Much to both of our surprise, I just couldn’t draw up the past images or the feelings associated with them!

Needless to say, I immediately stopped seeing the therapist and haven’t thought about the event since. I have seen other hypnotherapists in the past and I have never gotten the truly permanent effect that James gave me. I would highly recommend him to anyone thinking about seeing a hypnotherapist! *

From Trish Allen on May 25, 2018

Felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders *

I went to see James for help with a fear of flying which was crippling me emotionally and physically as travel is an essential part of my job. Aside from the awful anxiety i would feel ahead of travel and on the plane, I was worried that i was passing my fears on to my children.

James provided a safe and calm environment and managed to remove the phobia that had traumatised me for years, in one session. I left with techniques to support myself and felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. I have travelled many times since with absolutely no issues. I would recommend James to anyone affected by any sort of anxiety or panic disorder. *

From Roberta Duman on May 2, 2018

He’s a straight talker and doesn’t mess about *

I went to James as a last resort. I had tried everything to fix my fear of flying. I fly a lot for work and every single time I had a trip coming up or had to get in a plane I would become anxious and panic.

When I went to see James I honestly couldn’t tell you exactly what he did, it was a mixture of techniques but my mind was open and I was willing to follow what he said to do. What I do know, is that this man is a magician. When I walked out I didn’t ‘feel’ different but when I told him I had a flight to take the next day and he asked me how I felt about it at the end of the session I actually said ‘I’m really looking forward to it’ and I meant it!!

Seriously this guy was amazing, I couldn’t believe I actually felt that. And what’s more when I got on the plane I really enjoyed it! No racing heart, no tears, no anxiety. And the maddest thing of all, I’m now taking flying lessons!!! I cannot recommend James enough. He’s a straight talker and doesn’t mess about but I would have paid this guy double his fee to get my phobia gone. Cannot recommend him enough. Just do it!! *

From Louisa Street on May 2, 2018

It was wonderful to be able to look around at all the wondrous sights without reservations. *

I finally plucked up the courage to go and see James after suffering from a fear of heights for 30 years. My phobia had been getting worse over the years, stopping me from enjoying many things in my life. Trips with family were steered around my phobia and if I found myself in situations where it was unavoidable I was left panicked, shaking, hyperventilating and crying.

I was nervous on entering James’ room in Winchester but was very soon put at ease. Never at any point was I made to feel silly even when emotions overcame me. I was grateful for the strategically placed tissues! The technique used was not like I imagined, having based my expectations on what I’d seen in the movies! It was simple and very effective. I felt in control at all times and James was extremely patient.

I went in feeling anxious and nervous and came out feeling free. Now to put it to the test….

…..Just returned from visiting New York and what a revelation. I experienced bridges, ledges, tall buildings and planes. It was wonderful to be able to look around at all the wondrous sights without reservations.

I smiled and just enjoyed. Thank you James for giving me my freedom to just be. *

From Claire Backhurst on April 30, 2018

James has given me a life I never believed I could have *

What can I say – James has given me a life I never believed I could have. My fear of flying was such that until meeting James I could barely bring myself to even visit an airport never mind board a plane. Now, after several trips I feel a sense of freedom that I have never encountered before. The session was relaxed, friendly and refreshing. Certainly much better than anything I had experienced in the past. I have absolutely no hesitation in recommending James.

Indeed I hope to consult with him soon concerning another issue, which for me has also been similarly as prohibitive as my fear of flying. Thank you James, you have given me a bigger life.*

From Darren Coleran on April 2, 2018

James used of a number of techniques to unlock hidden parts I did not even know existed *

I had some long-standing issues regarding unnecessary anger and anxiety. As well as the limiting beliefs and behaviours that go with that.

I think I was one of the more challenging of clients as I was very stubborn about letting go of the beliefs that were causing my issues. Over the sessions James managed to hold the space for me, keeping my anger out of the way so he could skillfully get to the root cause of the problem and assist me in dissolving them. The process is very clever and the best I’ve ever seen for integrating stubborn parts within yourself.

James used of a number of different techniques providing a multi-tool approach to help unlock hidden parts I did not even know existed.

After our sessions were over James offered a free follow up to see how I was doing. The experience opened up a lot for me and it took me a while to fully incorporate these changes into my life.

Now, having fully adjusted, my life is starting to take off. My relationships are better, I am running 2 businesses and I am much calmer and relaxed in situations which used to trigger my anger.

Thank you James for the great work we did together. It has truly changed my life. *

From Paul Leppard on March 21, 2018

he will continue to be the benchmark on therapy for me *

James is an extremely skilled professional, with a refreshing and clarifying style of communication. The decision to use James to overcome historical incidents has changed my life. I can’t thank him enough, and he will continue to be the benchmark on therapy for me *

From Nell Lloyd-Malcolm on March 21, 2018

You will know you've gone to the right place the minute you walk into the room *

I decided to see James after trying several other routes over many years with with no success. After just the first session I had more clarity on what the real problem was and several strategies had been put in place to help me. I was hugely relieved to find someone I could trust had the expertise to help. I thoroughly recommend anyone go to Fix My Mind. You will know you’ve gone to the right place the minute you walk into the room. Easy to find, easy to work with easy to recommend. Working with James has changed my life more than I could have hoped! *

From Anne Allen on February 28, 2018

My anxiety issues are gone *

I have had anxiety issues virtually all my life and decided that now was as good a time as ever to do something about it. Having researched several treatments online, I decided that Hypno-therapy sounded good. I was still sceptical though. Right after my first session with James, the changes were phenomenal. And after 3 more, I can’t even imagine why I waited so long to do this. My anxiety issues are gone, I am far more self confident, my activity and energy levels are up. I now see solutions and opportunities where before I saw difficulties and obstacles. It has been the best investment of the year, if not my life. *

From Jan Dielkins on February 16, 2018

When my session was over I knew I had stopped smoking for ever *

If I’d had realised that stopping smoking was going to be this easy and stress-free I would have seen James much sooner! I had smoked for many years, for so many years that it had become a part of my life, my behaviour and my thinking. I had started smoking as an insecure, anxious teenager when I believed back then that smoking somehow gave me control, made me more grown-up, stronger. Until I saw James, there was a part of me that still believed that thought process and therefore whenever I thought of stopping smoking, I would become anxious again, thinking that I would not be able to cope and not be in control. I honestly thought that stopping smoking would mean my life would be empty, filled with gaps and I didn’t know how I was going to fill those gaps! That is how the habit of smoking had taken over me!

My 2 hour session with James flew by – I couldn’t believe the time had passed so quickly and in that 120 minutes my life had changed for ever. The process of being in the hypnotic state was very straightforward and calming. I was aware of what was being said to me and I was also aware of the clarity of those words – I was awake and my mind felt completely focused on James’ words.

When my session was over I knew I had stopped smoking for ever. I remembered that I had smoked in the past but I had absolutely no desire to have a cigarette ever again. I felt true Freedom for the first time in many many years. No more ruminating about when, where, how I could have my next cigarette, no more feeling that I was being controlled by my habit, no more feeling like a failure when I lit up another cigarette.

The funny thing is that my greatest fear about stopping smoking was that my life would feel empty, that I would not have anything to reward myself with/comfort myself with – now that I have stopped smoking I can see how the habit had distorted my thinking to keep me smoking. Since my session with James I have not replaced cigarettes with food or alcohol (that was also my concern that if I stopped smoking I might reach for a chocolate bar or drink but that hasn’t happened). I have far more energy, my skin looks better and I feel better. I no longer think about smoking.

If you’re thinking that you want to stop smoking but just don’t know how I would definitely recommend James – it will be the best 2 hours you can experience – pain-free, stress-free and life changing! *

From Penny McCarthy on December 24, 2017

He wants his clients to succeed and expects, and gives, a level of commitment to getting you over and beyond your challenges *

Having worked with James twice now, once for my own phobia and also to help my teenage daughter, I thought it time to share my positive experience with others.

James is a refreshingly straightforward and highly skilled therapist. He wants his clients to succeed and expects, and gives, a level of commitment to getting you over and beyond your challenges. James does not beat about the bush, so if you’re looking for a softly, softly approach he may not be the right person for you, however from my experience, he achieves fantastic results very quickly!! *

From Sally Cockroft on November 17, 2017

The techniques James uses are quick, easy and efficient*

I went to James to get help around public speaking, which I had negative feelings around and which I didn’t feel my best or confident about when on stage.

I went a few days before my TED talk and I can say happily and confidently, that it went the best I’d ever done it.

The techniques James uses are quick, easy and efficient.

I’ve seen him twice and I highly recommend him.  He’ll help you break through barriers.*

From on November 11, 2017

The treatment is well worth investing the money in *

This treatment has completely changed my life. Blushing was holding me back at work and socially and making me feel anxious all the time and I was desperate to find something that would help.  I still can’t believe it now but this treatment has made me feel so calm and confident in situations I didn’t think possible before. It has made me much more able to enjoy life and take part in activities I would have avoided before. The treatment is well worth investing the money in. I can’t thank James enough *

From Charlotte Halfpenny on November 9, 2017

Since working with James I have not stammered once and I feel amazing *

James is quite simply superb! I went to James to help me let go of an old pattern of stammering when stressed. During the session, I had a major breakthrough realising that what I thought was the issue wasn’t the issue at all and James helped me put that right. Since working with James I have not stammered once and I feel amazing and ready to take on the world! Thank You James! If you are thinking of Hypnotherapy then I highly recommend James to you 🙂 *

From Paul Adamson on October 4, 2017

After one 20 minute session with James we walked to a lift nearby got in and travelled up and down a few times :) *

I have had a fear of small spaces and can never travel in lifts or the tubes in London, my heart beats so fast, I start to sweat and my brain clicks into major panic mode to get out quick. I visited James after researching lots into hypnotherapy and who could help me. We spoke at length on the phone about my needs and I felt he was the right guy for me. After one 20 minute session with James we walked to a lift nearby got in and travelled up and down a few times :). Since then I have got into a very small lift (3 people max) on my own and gone up and down. I am so pleased with what James has achieved in just 20 minutes – I have lived with this for 30 years. Next stop London tubes!! *

From Dawn Claire on October 2, 2017

I was amazed that after a short session of about an hour my anxiety regarding driving seemed to have disappeared! *

I contacted James regarding my anxiety in relation to driving. I have always been a nervous driver but having lived in London for years I had managed to avoid driving by using the tube. Since moving to Winchester and having children the need to drive had become far greater. Driving has always caused me to feel extremely anxious and out of control. Despite owning a car, I would avoid driving as much as I could and if I did drive it would only be for very short trips that made me feel extremely anxious. My life had become very restricted as a result. Having unsuccessfully tried various types of therapy I was sceptical about the results my session with James would achieve.

I was amazed that after a short session of about an hour my anxiety regarding driving seemed to have disappeared! When I recalled the most difficult times I had experienced whilst driving the anxious feelings were no longer there. I obviously wanted to see how I actually felt getting into the car and driving, and I found myself going on an hour-long road trip the next day. It felt completely different to all my previous drives. I felt relaxed and more crucially, in control. I felt like whatever happened on the road I could deal with it and adapt to the changing situation as I drove along.

I am absolutely delighted with the results. I found James approach to be friendly targeted and highly effective. I thoroughly recommend him. *

From Suzie Gilbert on September 30, 2017

I am more calm and rational. *

I went to James after realising I needed to have a better grasp over my emotions. I was a very reactive and abrupt person due to a series of traumatic events in my past. I kept excusing my reactions based on other people’s actions, however, this caused a lot of disruptive relationships for me. After a phone consultation with James, he decided five structured sessions will allow me to let go of emotions to previous traumatic events. After my first session of Event Havening, I had let go of all my emotions tied to all the traumatic events. I remember the events, however, the draining emotions tied to those events had gone. Even when I think about the events a month after my first session – I don’t feel anything negative. Whilst I may react to certain situations now; I am not constantly over-reacting and I am more calm and rational.

I also did timeline therapy with James which allowed me to let go of core negative emotions, such as, fear and guilt. The burden of all the unhealthy amount negative emotions I felt before that session had drifted away. The fourth session was a more trance-like hypnotic state that felt like a “goodbye” to finally close the chapter to all my previous worries. Now, I feel more carefree and to just let things be.

The sessions were 100% worth-it and James was very encouraging and supportive to help me reach my goal. I highly recommend him. *

From Prita Singh on August 1, 2017

I have called upon the techniques James gave me in other stressful situations I have had since, with amazing success. *

I saw James over two separate issues which were causing me anxiety. Firstly a new fear of driving on the motorway and secondly how to tackle my nervousness speaking at a large conference. James gave me strategies to deal with both in a calm and non-threatening environment. He made me feel totally at ease and relaxed at our sessions. I have called upon the techniques James gave me in other stressful situations I have had since, with amazing success. I would definitely recommend James to anyone who finds they are living with an anxiety. It really can be life-changing. *

From Charlotte Thompson on June 28, 2017

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Accelerated Relaxation Programme CD
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  • 20 minute consultation
  • 10% discount on all treatments